You just have to be sure you're doing the right thing. i mean it's very easy to forget - she's was just sitting there in the pub with her new friends and her new life and her new hair and it might been five years but you'd know just to look at her. Didn't see her for the rest of the night, but by closing time the beer's kicked in so i go up and speak to her and we end up going for a walk and talking about our new homes, our new jobs, our new friends and our new birds. But you have to remember there's this other kiss. and she's sitting at home, wondering where you are and what you're doing. and you work hard on this kiss and you know it inside out, it's as much yours as it is hers, and it took a long time to get right, it took months of practice and months of embarassment but now you've got it perfected and you've been looking forward to that kiss all week. You can see her breath in the air between your faces as you stand in the leaves and she just asks you straight out if you want to come and stay at her flat. but you make sure you get separate taxis and you go home and there might be a slight regret and maybe you'll wonder what you missed but you have to remember the kiss that you worked so hard on - and you'll know you've done the right thing.